thiskillsthemandy:
I remember before I came to terms with my sexuality that I was dating this guy and I was going to get my hair cut short and he said "no, it will make you look ugly don't do that" and so I went in and pretty much shaved my head it felt great

HAHA that’s great
limonadasinazucar:
when i was short haired most of people thought i was lesbian or stuff like that. and i really don't mind it, i don't think bein' called "lesbian" is some kinda insult, but it made me angry 'cause it was like they couldn't believe some girl could cut her hair so short just because ! it was like "nope, if you cut your hair so short, is because you wanna be a boy". fuck it lol --nice blog, btw (:

Riiiight how dumb is that. Like I could walk around with a dick sewn to the front of my pants but that still doesn’t mean I want to be a boy

Actually that might be a bit extreme
whatthegeekster:
To the girl that said that most guys dislike short hair, only the jerks. You're more than right to keep your hair as you like. And I say that about guys because all my male friends and even guys I don't talk much to said that I look pretty as hell and some of them said that girls with short hair look hotter. hahahahaa

there ya go
snortingpixxiedust:
i would like to point out this guy here likes short hair on girls..if anything i find that girls with short hair have crazy confidence in themselves and it's great. Seriously, fuck not cutting your hair just incase you're seen as not attractive/not feminine/a lesbian etc you will find someone who thinks you're pretty as fuck even though you have shorter hair than them :)

Yay boys!
Anonymous:
i have parents who also think that getting a pixie cut is something that only lesbians do, too! when i tried explaining to them how it's really not that big of a deal and how i've wanted it for a long time, my dad said that "he doesnt want me getting ridiculed". it was kind of a verbal slap to the face :c

That kind of sounds like an excuse to me. If you do get ridiculed, it’s all shallow anyway. let it bounce off your sexy exterior.
Anonymous:
moms... why, right. mine actually always asked me to cut my hair short cuz she loves it. and honestly, after cutting it, i felt way more feminine.
minnesoulta:
Its her damn hair and she doesn't owe how she looks to anyone, it's not her job to please anyone especially not a partner. Femininity does not always equate with long hair and if more people would get that in their heads it'd be amazing.
conor-broberst:
Most guys do not like short hair. I know this, and sometimes, it makes me insecure, but my short hair is a declaration that I will not change myself to satisfy other people.

This is the right attitude, my friends. I think the men who do like short hair understand that it takes mad confidence to rock it. and that’s real sex appeal. or whatever
Anonymous:
Before summer started, I told my family I wanted my hair cut short. I wanted a pixie that I could spike up and style. They all supported me until a week ago. Mom randomly said, "whatever. Just don't complain to me when everyone calls you a lesbian."

Moms, am I right? Some people don’t understand how feminine short hair can be.
Anonymous:
To the girl who suggested talking to your boyfriend about why he doesn't like short hair on women, the answer he gives will probably just lower her opinion of him. I dated a guy who had the same feelings about short hair, and when I decided to talk about it, he mansplained that "long hair is one of the main features that defines 'prettiness'" and that "it's possible for a girl to be attractive with short hair, but only 2% of the time." 2%. That's awfully specific. I dumped him the next day.

wow that’s terrible. thank you for dumping him.
Anonymous:
To the girl who's boyfriend told her he wants her hair to grow out; Talk to him about it. He's your boyfriend. You just need to talk to him about it and resolve the issue, tell him how you like your hair and ask why he likes it longer, then come up with a solution together. That's just how relationships are, really. My boyfriend hates me dying my hair, but I just explained to him how dye is temporary and he changed his mind. (Well, unless he was like, "GROW IT OR I WILL LEAVE")

possibly a better response!